Separating from a partner you expected to spend a lifetime is an emotional wringer. It can lead to acrimony and resentment even in well-adjusted adults.

The journey is even more difficult for kids involved; they're more aware than given credit. Awareness of a situation and understanding are entirely different.

A child may feel confusion and guilt when the parents' relationship falls apart. Here are some co-parenting styles to help mitigate negative fallout.

Each parent interacts with the child independently. There is minimal adult contact with each other. This reduces the risk of conflict and stress for all involved.

This style thrives when there is a modicum of respect between ex-partners for the sake of a child. Mutual appreciation in pursuit of the child's wellness is paramount.

This is for parents with disposable income. The family home is kept for a child's stability and partners rotate in on a regular basis. It may require maintaining three residences.

Some conflicts large and small require an ombudsman. Family therapists can guide the former household unit through both separation and reconciliation.

Many children respond best with structure. Schedules for time management and maintaining consistent disciplinary standards for both parents are important.

Everything in life is unpredictable. A family in turmoil more so. Take a minute during emergencies. Breathe. Everything that may seem unsurmountable isn't.

Income isn't a competition, especially during a fraught family relationship. Parents can make agreements about spending and avoid trying to one-up each other.

To preclude miscommunication that may result in disputes, try apps like OurFamilyWizard which help everyone stay on task.

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