By leah jones
Teen Dating Violence Awareness and Prevention Month (TDVAM) is observed every February. Though it is coming to a close, the efforts of this annual month-long observation are important year round.
It is dedicated to raising awareness about teen dating violence, promoting healthy relationships and educating young people, parents and communities about the warning signs of abuse.
Teen dating violence includes physical, emotional, psychological and digital abuse within young people’s relationships. According to studies, about 1 in 3 teens experiences some form of dating abuse.
TDVAM aims to encourage conversations about healthy relationships, provide resources for teens to seek help and support/empower young people to advocate for change and support survivors.
The theme for TDVAM 2025 is "Respect That." Selected by the “love is respect” Youth Council, this focus emphasizes that respect is both an action and a mindset.
It highlights the importance of treating partners with dignity, listening to their viewpoints, respecting their boundaries and valuing their autonomy.
It is important to carry out the themes of this year’s TDVAM even as we reach the end of it. Here are some of the important lessons from love is respect to share with teens and to always uphold in relationships.
Respect in a Relationship
Equal respect in a relationship is vital to prevent controlling behavior and abuse. Consider each other's boundaries, ask for consent and speak your truth without yelling.
Respecting Differences
A part of preventing DV is being tolerant to people of all races, genders, sexualities, ability and socioeconomic status. Always try to understand what others need in relationships.
Addressing Stigma
We must unlearn the many harmful stereotypes we were taught at a young age about relationships. These include notions like “men are the dominant ones,” “couples must always agree” and “jealousy signifies love.”
Identifying Disrespectful Behavior
A part of TDVAM is empowering youth (and all people) to call out disrespectful behavior. This can include being touched without consent, verbal abuse, controlling your actions, pressuring you, tracking you etc.
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