Music is a universal language that captures human situations and reality very aptly. Here are some some songs that accurately capture the essence of Black sisterhood and friendship.
Brown Skin Girl by Beyoncé
Pose like a trophy when Naomi's walk in
She need an Oscar for that pretty dark skin
Pretty like Lupita when the cameras close in
Drip broke the levee when my Kellys roll in
I think tonight she might braid her braids
Melanin too dark to throw her shade
She minds her business and wines her waist
Gold like 24k, okay…
When Beyoncé released this song, many people instantly received it for its empowering message. “Brown Skin Girl” is the ultimate power anthem for Black and brown girls. It is a power anthem and instant confidence booster celebrating the beauty and power of melanin. This is the ultimate Black and brown girl celebration.
Girl by Destiny’s Child
Girl, I can tell you've been crying, and you needing somebody to talk to
Girl, I can tell he's been lying and pretending that he's faithful and he loves you
Girl, you don't have to be hiding, don't you be ashamed to say he hurt you
I'm your girl, you're my girl, we your girls
Don't you know that we love you…
There is nothing better than having a group of supportive friends in your corner during the toughest times. “Girl” is a female empowerment song about friendship, sisterhood and support.
Girlfriend by Nicki Minaj
Wherever I slide through, I gotta go buy two
If I get it in the pink, I get her the light blue
Brand new Range Rover, that was for her b-day…
While this song is light-hearted, it serves the same empowerment purpose as the other songs on this list, and it’s rhythm and flow both usher listeners into reminiscing about Nicki Minaj’s introduction to the music industry.
Good as H*ll by Lizzo
Come now, come dry your eyes
You know you a star, you can touch the sky
I know that it's hard but you have to try
If you need advice, let me simplify
If he don't love you anymore
Just walk your fine ass out the door…
This song is the perfect post-breakup anthem for your girlfriend who may be experiencing post-break up hurt. Lizzo did great with the lyrics, tune and rhythm of this song. If your friend is going through a tough time, this is the perfect song.
Jumpin’ Jumpin’ by Destiny’s Child
All you ladies leave your man at home
The club is full of ballers and their pockets full grown
And all you fellas leave your girl with her friends
'Cause it's eleven thirty and the club is jumpin', jumpin'
Apart from the fact that this song is off the famous The Writing’s on the Wall album and was certified platinum 8 times in three years by the RIAA, it is also the perfect ladies night out song. If you are in some serious need of a girls night and need a boost, this is the song to vibe to.
Count on Me by Whitney Houston and CeCe Winans
Count on me through thick and thin
A friendship that will never end
When you are weak I will be strong
Helping you to carry on
Call on me, I will be there
Don’t be afraid
Please believe me when I say
Count on me
“Count on Me” was more than just the soundtrack for Waiting to Exhale. When it was released, it quickly became a heartwarming song celebrating sisterhood and unwavering friendship and dedication.
What About Your Friends by TLC
What about your friends?
Will they stand their ground,
Will they let you down again?
What about your friends?
In their 1992 debut album, TLC, the R&B and hip hop girl group released "What About Your Friends" as a single. The lyrics serve as a salute to true friendship and the ability to discern who our true friends are.
Best Friend by Aaliyah feat Missy Elliott
I'll still be there for you
In your time of need, you can lean on me
Come on, I'll be there for you
I'll still be there for you
In your time of need, you can lean on me
Come on, I'll be there for you
This is a no-nonsense anthem for the tough-love type of friend who ends up standing the test of time and staying by your side no matter what.