It may have been easier for you to make friends as a child, but it can get difficult to make friends as an adult. You don’t have daily access to a community of people in the same way that you did when you were a child. It can be really hard to connect with people. Making friends as a grown-up is possible and can be a fulfilling journey.
Make Real-Life Connections
Attend Local Events
Explore local art shows, cultural festivals or community workshops. Attend events related to your hobbies or passions, providing a chance to meet people with similar interests. Strike up conversations with attendees, and don’t be afraid to exchange contact information.
Take Fitness Classes
Join a gym or sign up for fitness classes in your area. This not only contributes to your well-being, but also creates a consistent environment to connect with others. Bond over shared workout struggles, celebrate achievements together and consider organizing post-class coffee sessions to deepen connections.
Go to Networking Mixers
Attend industry-specific or general networking events to expand your professional and social circles. Engage in conversations beyond work-related topics, and don’t hesitate to share personal interests.
Volunteer for an Organization
Offer your time to local charities or organizations. Volunteering provides a sense of purpose, while allowing you to meet individuals who share your values. Whether it’s participating in a community cleanup or contributing to a local food bank, shared experiences foster meaningful connections.
Download Apps for Online Connections
Join Bumble BFF
Create a genuine profile on Bumble BFF, highlighting your interests and what you’re looking for in a friend. Take the initiative to message potential friends. Be open to meeting up in person after establishing a connection online. Attend Bumble BFF events or virtual meetups organized through the app.
Connect with Moms Through the Peanut App
Peanut offers a space to connect with other moms experiencing similar joys and challenges. Engage in group discussions, share advice and attend local meetups. The app’s interface facilitates authentic connections, making it easier to build friendships with fellow moms.
Use the Meetup App
The Meetup app allows you to find a plethora of groups catering to various interests. Explore local events or create a group centered around your hobbies. Attend meetups organized by other members and foster connections with people who share your passions.
Join Other Social Groups
The Black Girls Social Club
Immerse yourself in the vibrant community of The Black Girl Social Club. Attend both online and in-person events, such as brunches, workshops or themed parties. Engaging in a variety of activities that will expose you to different aspects of your fellow members, fostering more profound connections.
Black Girls at Leisure
Black Girls at Leisure is a local New York club for Black women looking to make new connections in the city. Attend gatherings, workshops or outings hosted by the group, allowing you to deepen connections with Black women who share your leisure interests.
Other Than Drinks
If you’re in Los Angeles and are looking to connect with Black women, try Other Than Drinks. Join the mailing list to be notified of events and meetups happening in the area.
More Than Parties
In the DMV area, Black women can find solace and community in More Than Parties. This organization creates events for Black women to come, have fun and find a community.