Moms and dads play different but vital roles in the shaping of their children’s lives. A mom is a young girl’s first window into womanhood. Dads are protectors and providers, teaching girls just as many important lessons as mom does. For Father’s Day, 21Ninety spoke to several women who took a moment to reflect on what they have learned from their dads. Those lessons provided wisdom, gave encouragement, taught independence and much more. Here’s a salute to men who are great fathers.
Independence
Vanessa Hayward’s dad made sure that she was well equipped to handle problems around her home or with her car.
“Growing up in a house with 5 other siblings, it was always something to learn from my dad. Before any trip over an hour, he showed me how to check my tire pressure with a tire gauge that I [now] keep in my car,” Hayward said.
She says he always reminded her to keep her faith first at all times.
“Most importantly, never trust man. Trust God,” she said.
Smart Financial Decisions
Some of the lessons Meaghan Garrett’s dad taught her have given her wisdom when it comes to making financial decisions.
“Lend to people you could borrow from,” Garrett shared. “Otherwise, just treat it as a gift so you won’t harbor any resentment and the relationship can be sustained.”
He also warned her to be prepared for a rainy day.
“Always put away something for yourself from every check; even if it’s just $10. When times get hard, you’ll appreciate that money you set aside. Then when you have the money, put back everything you gave plus interest,” Garrett said.
Safety, Security and Treating Yourself
Chelsey Watts’ dad has taught her the importance of protecting herself wherever she is and in any situation.
“Always be aware of my surroundings and keep a level head during confrontation,” Watts said.
He also taught her the importance of doing something nice for herself.
“I buy myself something nice every paycheck. You can’t take the money with you when you’re gone, so spend it,” Watts said.
Provide, Plan and Be Polite
Jessica Thomas credits her dad for helping her get an undergraduate degree.
“My degree is owing in part to my father’s willingness to fund my college for 3.5 years while I attended GSU full time,” Thomas said. “Not certain if I would have accomplished this goal by 2011.”
He also instilled in her that failing to plan was a plan to fail and to be polite to people she crossed paths with.
“I aim to have a plan A and B whenever it comes to major decisions,” Thomas shared. “He also taught me the importance of treating people with respect and kindness.”