Confidence isn’t built overnight but it is built intentionally. This May, at the highly anticipated return of Summit 21, one of the most influential voices in lifestyle and personal development, Mattie James, will be gracing the stage to share powerful insights on self-growth and success. One of her most impactful messages? Keeping your word to yourself is the key to confidence.
In a recent video, Mattie James broke it down in a way that hit home for so many women. She emphasized that true confidence isn’t about external validation, it’s about self-trust.
The Power of Self-Trust
“You know the easiest way to increase your confidence? Keep your word to yourself,” James said to start the video.
These opening words set the tone for a message that many need to hear. At its core, confidence comes from trusting yourself to follow through on commitments, no matter how big or small.
If you say you’re going to be in bed by 10 p.m., honor that. If you commit to waking up 30 minutes earlier for a workout, set that alarm and actually get up. If you’ve promised yourself that this is the year you’ll finally launch that business, blog, or course, stop waiting for perfection, just start.
Confidence Begins with Consistency
James reminds her followers that confidence is deeply tied to the root word “confide.”
If you can confide in yourself and count on yourself to follow through, we naturally feel more powerful. It’s not about waiting for the perfect conditions or getting applause from others. It’s about making small promises and actually keeping them.
Think back to the moments when you followed through on something you set out to do. How did you feel? Likely, you felt empowered, unstoppable—even like the best version of yourself. That’s because the best version of you doesn’t break promises to herself.
Small Promises, Big Transformations
Building confidence doesn’t require huge, overwhelming steps. It’s not about extreme measures, it’s about intentional action. It’s about trusting yourself enough to take the next step, whether that means drinking more water, setting a boundary at work, or finally pressing ‘publish’ on that long-overdue project.
Mattie James encourages women to start today: Make a promise to yourself and keep it. Whether it’s something as simple as journaling for five minutes a day or as bold as finally launching that business, every kept promise strengthens your self-trust.
Join the Conversation at Summit 21
If you’re ready to step into the most confident, accountable, and unstoppable version of yourself, Summit 21 is where you need to be. This May 2025, Black women from all over will come together to learn, grow, and transform. With powerhouses like Mattie James leading the conversation, you’ll walk away not just inspired, but equipped to take action. Tickets are on sale now to this can’t miss event!