There is nothing wrong with dating outside your race, and in an interview with Essence magazine, TLC's Chilli said that many women of color miss out on meaningful relationships because they focus on dating someone from their own race rather than being open to an individual of a different racial background. You want to be sensitive to the challenges that come with interracial dating but you should also note so fearful that you avoid interracial dating altogether. One of the best ways to find potential dating partners of all races is to consider online dating apps. When you compose your dating app bio, be truthful about who you are, and use a high-quality photo. Also, focus on the qualities and values that you think best represents you. Here are other ways to navigate interracial dating.
Learn to Blot Out Others' Opinions
If you're in an interracial relationship, you'll need to develop a thick skin and a positive attitude. Some of your relatives, friends, and people, in general, might not approve of your relationship, and you don't have to defend your relationship. You should focus on the love that you and your partner have for each other instead of the criticism others give you.
Explore Each Other's Cultures
The beauty of interracial relationships is that you get to learn more about the other person's culture and how it shaped his life and beliefs. If your partner is from Spain, ask him questions about certain holidays that are celebrated there and why. Never belittle your partner's culture even if there are aspects of it that you disagree with. Don't be afraid to express yourself around your partner and invite him to learn more about your culture.
Find a Supportive Tribe
The reality is that you and your partner might not get support from certain relatives and friends. When this occurs, it's a good idea to find groups of people who will root for your relationship. This might mean looking for local online groups for interracial couples or speaking mainly to the relatives who are not harsh towards you and your partner.
In conclusion, it is possible to thrive in a long-lasting interracial relationship if you have compassion, unconditional love, and a willingness to learn more about each other's views, cultures, and past experiences.