Alphabet dating (or ABC dating) is everywhere. Thankfully there is something fun for everyone to experiment with in upcoming dates with this new trend. The best news is that alphabet dating can be used by all the generations. With a range of date night ideas, it’s a challenge that brings some spark to the dating scene at large.
Read on for the low down on how to impress while Alphabet dating like an expert.
What is Alphabet Dating?
Alphabet dating is the answer for those who have exhausted date ideas and are looking to try something new. The idea is to date according to each letter of the alphabet. The dates should be in chronological order from A-Z. Hordes of couples and daters have taken to social media to show off their simple, creative, and out-of-the-box date ideas.
Alphabet dating is about keeping the dates imaginative and not defaulting to standard dinner dates and movie trips. While a classic dinner and movie never did anyone harm, this dating trend is about finding exciting ways to connect with your partner(s). Taking ‘quality time‘ up a level, from A -Z, provides an opportunity to experience your date in a new environment. It’s all about planning outings that are playful, charming, and exciting to follow up.
Get Started With Alphabet Dating
Now that you’ve decided to jump on the trend (a trend that has 268M views on TikTok), the real fun begins. It’s a good idea to take turns to planning the dates, alternating letters each time to share the responsibility and creativity.
This way, everyone is able to experience being a planner and being surprised. Below are some ideas to get you started:
A – Afternoon tea, Amusement Park, Arcade
B – Beach day, Brunch, Bookstore date
C – Concert, Carnival, Cruise
D – Drive-Thru Movie, Dance all night, Day trip
E – Escape room, Evening sunset cruise, Extreme sport
Reimagining Date Night
Alphabet dating isn’t a replacement for couples therapy or communication issues in a relationship. It is still a great way to revamp a relationship that feels stagnant in the date-night department. Thankfully, alphabet dating is a fresh way to approach old dating routines.
Unlike some of the other dating trends that have resurfaced, this dating trend works for all generations and all dating styles. This doesn’t apply to strictly monogamous or traditional daters. Situationship dates are welcomed here too. Additionally alphabet dating is applicable for all generations. Gen Z’s may enjoy this trend just as much as Millennial daters, which means everyone can join the fun.
An Opportunity to Explore Your City
Alphabet dating is a great opportunity to support local businesses and also fall in love with the city/neighborhood again. Alphabet dating can also be themed. For example, you and your date can try ‘Hidden Gems’ in [your city] or Black-owned alphabet dating in a specific region.
So, if it’s an (A)rt gallery date, an exhibition or an opening night, it gives you an excuse to travel your city. Others have adapted it to match restaurants, bars, and special locations in the city. If you’re living in France, L could be a trip to the Louvre in Paris and M could be a trip to Marseille. Get as creative as you can to explore the city while getting to know your relationship in an adventurous way. It’s a win-win.